Advice for Week of
November 17, 2002
November 24, 2002
December 2, 2002
December 9, 2002
December 16. 2002
December 23, 2002
December 30, 2002
January 6, 2003
January 24, 2003
February 3 ,2003
CLING – ON NEEDS
LOVE ADVICE
November 17, 2002
TO: YOU
Good luck in your search for true love , for life is short and when you look
back you are missing the present ! You are a beautiful person ! I wish for you
the prize of love today ! So how do you achieve this prize ? Well you don’t it
is already yours ! Waiting there just for you ! First open your eyes and thank
God for what you have ! Then put your left foot in front of the right , the
right in front of the left , NOW ! "SMILE" !
Congratulations !
and enjoy your love journey this week !
Remember your happy day is only a step and a smile away !
November 24, 2002
Dearest, Friend
So life is so interesting isn't it ! I really wish you well in your health
both physical and spiritual ! Really... I was thinking, “words of love and
cheer travel on and on” .................. for this is the will of GOD!
Really you and I won't be on this earth much longer as time goes but our
good deeds and thoughts will go on................may God bless you and may
your pockets be filled with Joy and Smiles Today ! And God wants us to want
to stay here to Love and plant those seed of love and happiness . Love
others as we Ourselves would wish to be loved !! I must go now for time is a
wasting Love Ya!
Your Friend Always …the Love Poet
December 1, 2002
LOVE
ADVISE
Does love come to your heart
first ? Or should you be looking for it ?
You must look and you must search ! Your soul must ache in its yearning
for the prize of love ! It was never said the lazy shall inherit the earth
or
anything else…Be in truth and in God’s love and surely it is your prize to
win . Most people give up but just think what are you giving up if you
quit you are giving up everything, for what is life without LOVE you said it
it ain’t worth nothing so start loving and you will be loved soon enough !
Be COOL DUDE !
December 9, 2002
LOVE
ADVISE
Responsible
Humanism
You call yourself responsible ! Why are there so many divorces ? Why do we
not feed all the hungry people in the world ? Wars ?..etc. Could it be we
don't pray to God enough ? Yes maybe so and we think we know it all . Sure
we are not perfect but couldn't we try just a little harder ? And with a
little prayer or two will probably help .
December 16, 2002
------Love and Life Waits For No Man ------
Love is not a statue that you can go and buy .
It is not a building you can go inside and visit . It is alive and
constantly moving, "alive somewhere?" . You are not going to fall-in-love
unless you find it and then fall-on-it . I am not going to find love by
writing about it but I can find love and then write about it . The memory
of love can cause you to do great things but live love from another person,
the love from nature and the love from the living God...... to that there is
no substitute !
Explanation:
Memory is just that a memory.
Get off your chair and Go-For-It
!!!!
December 23, 2002
Love
Advise
Give LOVE a chance each day Please !
And you surely will be a winner !!
If you are feeling sad or down let LOVE
be your crown and it will put a smile on
your face TODAY !!!
Explanation:
when you give
love you always receive more than you have given when sometimes it doesn't
seem so ! Give it a chance and surely it will grow ! Remember you are the
farmer not the seed and you shall reap what you have sown .
HE WHO PLANTS MORE SHALL REAP MORE !
: )
LOVE
ADVISE for week of
Dec 30, 2002
LOVE
ADVICE
Don't
give up ! Quitters always lose. Life is too short, so stay and see the end
of the movie. Don't always bad-mouth others and opening your big mouth
because others will see your cavities ! " Not the cavities in your teeth " ,
"But the cavities in your head "your mind". Show that your heart is, "full
of love" and maybe someone will come along and take some love and leave
some, "Love"… for you to enjoy!!!!!!!!!
!!! .
Explanation : $#)@*)$*)*^^*)^)*&##&# Do The LOVE THING and you
will be
all the happier !!!!!!!!!!!!$@#&&&@_(_(@*+
January 6, 2003
LOVE
ADVICE ……
Consummation
Where is
your life going? Is time consuming you? Or are you consuming time?
Well this
is the way it goes! We are all actively involved in the process of consuming
our own time. How can you best spend your time? Are you wasting some of your
time by helping others who could otherwise be helping themselves? Sure it is
better to give than receive, but in what context? Can you give all you have
and receive back more than you have given; yes I believe this is possible in
certain arenas! But I also believe it is of vital importance to remember
that you have needs also!
Now in exaggeration if you were to travel 10,000 miles on your knees to
bring a loaf of bread to a starving person it would surely do you in and the
bread would be crumbed by the time you got to that starving person! But if
you would have been practical about the situation you could have brought
10,000 loaves in a truck to starving people who were nearer at hand. I'm not
saying that the person 10,000 miles away was less important and surely if
you or I were that starving person ten thousand miles away we indeed would
want such a friend!
Now in the latter common sense norm you are able to live a life of sanity
and a life of usefulness. Now in your daily life you must strive to survive
the joys and tribulations of your daily thoughts to be fruitfully, if
possible, by the best of your capabilities in whatever scenario situation
you habitat in.
You have a core in your existence which is needed for a person to live
functionally! You must reclaim core existence (your life), if it is for the
betterment and good of humanity and it is your responsibility to make
this decision for yourself? You and you alone can and must make a
judgment. This decision must be made now for it is always now the present to
be seized, the moment!
Whatever you honestly believe whether you are right or wrong and if
wrong hopefully you will learn from your mistakes and become a better
person. Are you helping someone who is not helpless and who can do more for
themselves if so you must let them go letting them do for themselves? Can
you do more for yourself or are you laden with self excuses and self pity?
And if you feel your core time (your life sustaining reality) is dwindling
hurting oneself you must be true to yourself and retrieve your life.
We all see things differently and if you are to be true to yourself you will
sometimes be scrutinized and criticized by your fellow man (
humans often
enjoy criticizing, yet friends and family who hang in there with you
J
, so look for the good in the day and trod on, in other words look for the
day to be good and be optimistic
), which is not pleasant for no one likes to be such.
You must always be attempting to be a better person continually reevaluating
your actions. And also an important thought, people have a greed-side which
concerns them most about themselves! When push comes to shove aren't you
most concerned about yourself or a loved one! But in the very end very few
have ever buried themselves alive with a deceased loved one so why now
should you be buried in reality of other's illicit compulsions or your own
misconceptions.
So be a giving person but couscous, all people at times and some people more
often than not would like to consume your money and all your time which
would include having you consuming their thoughts and desired and thereby
making you part of them. "It is a dog eat dog world" isn't it? There is a
lot of truth in cliché sayings as that! "Give me liberty or give me death"!
Give your core time but don't ever lose sight of it!
The giving of your precious time can sometimes be difficult and crucial
decisions have to be made constantly so keep enough bread left at the table
of life for oneself unless another would do more good with it?
In this agenda could it be that we ourselves are two people, ourselves
wanting to do good and not able to do so because of preconceived thoughts,
could this be the good and evil or just a part of the human throne upon
which we all sit? And very possibly maybe these thoughts of understanding
life as I have tried to examine actually requires the power of God.
Now this comes back to the start, to the beginning, to the creator of life
and love "God" and the receiving of love and forgiveness from God for the
spirit lives on and our gargling of words in trying to understand our daily
trod soon to end here on earth our bodies to dust which is almost never a
desire? When our train pulls in to pick us up for our trip ( our final ride)
to the beyond we must never forget our toothbrushes right hee hee.
J
Ha ha now you must be cheerful and lighthearted in your daily walk and your
smile can become the sunshine of another's day Ok! This a cheerful
lighthearted outlook is a very important ingredient to a healthy lifestyle
which should always be thrown into the mix of your life for it as a
necessary ingredient as to the adding of flour in the making of a cake.
Think about that it is the least you can do for the God given blessings you
are given each day! No petty pity
L
excuses please J
as the bible says be thankful in all things and in all things give thanks!
God bless you in your journey to do good so go now and love and
understand!!!
Do more for oneself not being helpless to yourself being generous to others
with time, understanding and love!
To God, your fellow man and your self be true!
Prayer Is The Key To The Door Of Understanding And The Wings To Your Dreams!
If you were to take a watch apart and put all the pieces in a bag and then
shake and shake this bag do you think this process would ever make the watch
whole again? So then isn't a human being made so much more complicated than
this watch yet we often put our lives in bags and hope our lives will turn
out whole! This logic can also be used to prove that there is a God! Could a
conglomerate of random particles possibly be put in a bag and then shaken
for say some 10 zillion years and poof there came the first human male, then
of course another bag for the first female, a bag for ever object etc.
………… Someone had to put us together get it? To get life on it's evolving
track. Someone had to do it! This gives a whole new meaning to the phrase,
its in the bag!
J
Accept yourself for who you are and do your best God Bless
AL
LOVE
ADVISE for week of January 24, 2003
The
Fear
you
yellow-chicken
ostrich with head in a hole
scared as a rabbit
yellow belly
shaking like a leaf yes you are and maybe
for a good a good reason or so and then
you want to run away from it all ha ha
come on now if only you would seize the
moment fear will always be there and
will always haunt you if you let it I now
declare you an individual a person to
whom you must be accountable to and
also accountable to God, Now be
responsible to fear and its truths and don't
let the untruths of fear control you but be
filled with common sense strong in love and prayer !
A little commonsense would help too.
Explanation:
fear will control your whole life if you let it
and you will become a clone to fear be strong
and good luck
: )
AL
Love
Advice
AN
E-MAIL FROM A YOUNG WOMAN SEEKING TRUE LOVE !!!!!!!!!!
Hi ! My name is Miss Confused. Now going to
turn 20 yrs old soon. I am having a four years relationship with my
boyfriend. I was the one who choose him... Which means i was the want who
makes the first move... But it seemed that i love him more than he do.
Just recently, i broke up with him. Cos i
think that i was always the one who puts in so much effort in this
relationship. He doesnt seem to appreciate what i had done for this four
years of relationship. And we seem to be drifting apart as he always tell me
that he is busy with his studies and part time job. Sometimes we only meet
up once a week or never. He seldom gives me a call too.
Then, came another guy. He was really very
nice to me. Everything he does really touch my heart. But my bf came to look
for me and ask for a chance to our past relationship.
I am a girl who is easily soft hearted. I
don know why. Maybe its for the sake of our four yrs of relationhship that i
decided to give him a chance. But somehow , i find that i sometimes still
think of this another guy...
He said that he will wait for me. But i
told him not to waste his tiem on me. He just wont listen. But frankly
speaking , i have a little feeling for him. What should i do ? I am afraid
that whatever decision i make , i will regret.
Please give me advise.
Dear 'Miss Almost Twenty'
Your dilemma is that you are human and you make mistakes! And since you were
16 years old it sounds as though you have been emotionally and physically
involved with boyfriend #1 . You must understand that an
intimate relationship belongs between married partners "between married
people" ! Intimate love is sacred and involves the
highest of feelings and emotions ! Why do you see so many divorces and
unhappy people in this world? This first boy friend is a user and you used
him too to satisfy your desire for love ! So you are both guilty of screwing
up ! The second boy friend was a rebound and these almost never work out !
My advise is to pray to GOD for wisdom! You should find good friends who
live good lives and who want to help protect your virtue ! You are a
beautiful woman seeking love in the purest sense and may God grant your wish
and give you a man who will protect your virtue and give you
wholesome-refreshing love for all the of the wonderful days of your life !
Don't give up 'Miss Almost Twenty' and let us all know how things turn
out!!!!
Good Love
YOUR LOVE POET
AL
PS
If your car or life doesn't work get it fixed and surely you will be more
comfortable !
A 94 year old lady once said to me, "Everyone in this world has problems why
should there be anyone so special that doesn't?" so get to work everyone and
enjoy,….. everyone
CLING – ON NEEDS LOVE ADVICE
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hi
I am 16 years old and I am from
Oklahoma.
I am dating an 18 year old and I really like him, plus he makes me
really happy. I have always been a girl who needs a lot of attention
from my man and I have lost boyfriends because of it in the past. My
current boyfriend has not said anything about it but I can already tell
I am getting clinging. I don't want to ruin this relationship. How can I
change my ways before I lose this guy?
OUR LOVE ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dear Cling-On
First, don't worry about losing the boy friend ! For
this worry will bring you no good, OK.
Think of the reason you think you are this way. And if you feel you are
too clingy make it your resolve to change and you will change. A little
prayer to God always helps ! Protect your virtue and help others,
helping others will keep your mind and body and spirit active in good
thoughts and also answer this question! What advice would you give me if
a friend came to you with a similar problem?
professional help is always an option one visit to a professional near
where you live might really shed some light to you on the subject and it
could save you a lot of worry!
Chose the right path and surely you will get to your destination it's
not easy is it be a winner.
and it will take Work!!!! But if you
choose the right path you will have more Joy than
Sorrow !!!
Lots Of Love
YOURLOVEPOET
GOOD LOVE
AL
LOVE
ADVICE for week of February
24,
2003
LOVE
ADVISE
Hello I am a 33 yrs old man from PR I am dating a 24 yrs we been
going out
for at least 2 month. On that time a lot of things happened like
sex,
birthdays (mine and hers) and all the Christmas holydays. She looks
like
she's in love with me but she's always looking for any stupid thing
to fight
or have a discussion with me. So I decide to walk away but every day
she
call me or visit me. What you think is happening to her? What should
I do?
Does she really in love.
Regards
ROR
Dear, "Romeo"
In Porto Rico
Stand up
like a man you are 33years old and you whine to me!!!!!!!! " Does
she realllllly love me"
??????? Who do you think I am mother nature
???????? Yikeees !!!!!!!!!!!!
You are man enough to have sex what do you
expect ? You are having sex out of marriage which is one of the
reasons you feel so screwed up! You do not have any moral backbone
and before you know it you will become a big sissy!!!!!!!!!!!!
You ask me what do I think is happening to her ? If
she is as ½ confused as you I think the earth will fall off
it's axis !!!!!! I am going to have a heart
attack talking to you !!!!! Don't whine! Don't
whine!! OK!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Go to church maybe God can still make a man
out of you !!!!!!!!!!!!
GOOD LOVE, YOURLOVEPOET
AL
PS oh now where did I put my heart medicine, "Oh !! there it
is!!!!!"
Love is not a loaf of bread you can't buy it at the grocery store,
you can buy
sex though, what do you want?
LOVE
ADVICE for week of
April 7, 2003
hello,
I need some advice, I have two kids and I am kind of young. I am not
with the father, but last year I met this guy...... he went through so
much with me. he was there through my 2nd pregnancy and he was there when
my son was born, he was my angel through everything. I could not believe
that he stuck by me like he did. well 8 months latter he broke up with me,
cause I had family problems and he had met some one. I did not talk to him
, then he e-mailed me and we got back together. now he acts so mean. he
never looks at me in the eyes he try's to act all hard like he has no
heart. but when I get up set he try's to comfort me. he tells me that he
can not see him self in a long relationship with any other girl because of
the way they are, he says that he knows that i am the only one that cares
for him, i am also the only person who has ever been this close to him.
well i have tried to figure out what to do... but i do not know. i care so
much. not many guys his age would do what he did for me. please help....
do i leave him or what??
thank you for listening...
shannon
Lost Shannon!
please drop this guy ! and find yourself ! seek professional help !
God Bless YOU!
Pray and be strong in love, life is not for the weak, don't subject
yourself to such abuse
and please remember yourlovepoet loves you and our readers do also, we are
all rooting for you !!!
lots of love
yourlovepoet AL
LOVE
ADVICE for week of
April 20, 2003
Subject: confused 19 yr old
> i am a very confused young guy and i am coming to you guys for some
advise. I really love this girl and i don't know if she would take me back
after I have lied to her. Do you have any advise for me to try to get her
back? i know that she still loves me but i'm confused. I tried everything in
my power to get her back like writing poems and writing letters, but i just
don't know. I never thought that I can fall in love ever again or have
feelings for another girl, after getting out of a two year relationship.
Please I am needing some help on this because i just don't know anymore?
>
> ConfusedDawg
Dear Confused
How do you know what a woman is thinking ??????? Well you do know what is
happening you been dumped !!!!Yikeeeesss!!!!!!!!
Join the Marines maybe they can make a man out of you and stop your
whineeeeing !!!!!May be that is why she left you a cry baby whhhinneeerrr !
Hay this hurts me more than it does you !!! I don't like telling you this..
OK!But man to man it is a tough world out there and us men or wantabe mens
gots to stick together Say your prayers and get a good night sleep! OK!You
said you lied now live with it you made your own BED!!!
Good Love
yourlovepoet
LOVE
ADVICE for week of
April 28, 2003
i'm 18
years old and my boyfriend is 32 years old and ask for some advise
on how can i handle this situation for example if he is asking me to
have sex with him.
ALERT !!!!!!!!!!
Just Say No
unless you want lots of trouble
yourlovepoet
LOVE
ADVICE
May 5, 2003
So oft we think love is our right !
Yet is it ?
So often we think we are right ! Yet we
aren't always!!
Don't be a worm but stand up tall !
Growing and maturing is a life long process !
Love is a gift unwrap your gift each
morning !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
AND
ENJOY!!!!!!!!!!
GOOD LOVE
